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Wednesday, November 12, 2008

a little hurt goes a long way

Sometimes, Papa can be very insensitive to Mommy. Just like tonight when Mommy discussed with Papa after dinner about her diagnosis of endometriosis and causes leads to it. It went okay at first, but later Papa asked Mommy to find out what kind of female body shape might have a retroverted womb. It sounds like a simple question but to Mommy it was degrading - it was as if Papa was stereotyping a certain women with a certain medical condition which Mommy doesn't like. Mommy is trying hard to be civil and talk like she's unaffected but she was. It's not like she asked for all these to happen..and she doesn't want to blame her body condition for not being able to have me yet. Please Papa, all you need to do is hold Mommy and tell her everything can be solved. No need to look for blames. Mommy, wipe your tears and go to sleep. I'll be in your arms then.

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